There’s so many things I want to do with my life, I want to travel, explore, try new food/things, and have the freedom to do what I want when I want. On the other hand I want to have a steady career, have kids, and be content with just that. This life is too short. I feel like I have to choose between these different lifestyle when I’m not even sure which one is the right one for me.
Haven’t gotten on this in a about a year from today to be exact, but i gotta say i miss being on here.. relieving stress and being in touch with my inner self. Who knew someone can grow and change so much in a year….
-im back :)
Would you purchase a home with a girlfriend that you've only been dating for a yr?
I wouldn’t do anything with a girlfriend I’ve only been dating a year.
I wouldn’t move into an apartment, no joint bank account, no co-signing on a car, no engagement, no children.
My girlfriend didn’t even get my Netflix password in the first 12 months.
You don’t TRULY know somebody until you’ve known them for years. You don’t truly know someone until you’ve seen how they react in bad situations. Or when they’re drunk. Or when they’re pissed off at you. Or when they meet someone who can do more for them than you can. Or when they don’t need you anymore. That’s when you find out the true content of someone’s character.
In the first few months you’ve been meeting that person’s representative… not the real them.
I love New York but there is so much beauty out there.
I love learning, I love traveling. NYC kinda traps you, the big lights, the traffic, the hustle. It’s nice, but I need a change.
I need the wilderness, I need trees, I need something different for a while. I always saw myself just waking up and walking to a near by pond/lake just thinking and writing.
Maybe just traveling for some time will fill that void.